Originally posted by John
We've created these 50 tips for you, so that you can create miracles with your mouth, and simply give your guy the most mind-blowing pleasure of his life.
1. Talk Dirty
The right words are often more powerful than the best blow job techniques. A man’s orgasm happens in his mind; saying what he doesn't even know he desires to hear can trigger an instant orgasm.
Most women are quiet and make an “I’m-working-on-an-important-assignment” face, without saying a single word.
Why so serious? Relax… have fun with it. Nobody expects you to talk while having a penis in your mouth, stop for a second, take a breath… smile… give him a compliment, tell him you’re enjoying yourself, ask him for feedback, or tell him what you want him to do.
The “rule” for blowjob dirty talk is: whatever you say, say it with complete belief.
If you are afraid that what you say will sound too fake or awkward: it will.
Believe in what you say and say it fearlessly, and anything you say will sound great. There’s nothing clean about a blowjob, so don’t try to be classy about it once you are already on your knees.
Never forget that how you say it is more important than what you say. You don’t need “dirty talking lines,” you need playfulness and the confidence to let go of your fear of being looked down upon for talking dirty. He wants you to be slutty, so give yourself permission to cross the line.
Also, know that saying anything is usually better than saying nothing at all. You don’t want him to feel as if you are in your head, thinking, worrying, and giving him the “this-is-rocket-science” serious face. So speak up!
